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      <title>The Begining of an Adventure and BACK TO BASICS</title>
      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702954"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4" color="#583124"&gt;LESSONS FROM MY CORNER OF THE ROUNDPEN&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702956"&gt;&lt;font size="5" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702958"&gt;&lt;font size="5" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702960" align="center"&gt;&lt;font size="6"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font color="#583124"&gt;The Beginning of an Adventure and BACK TO BASICS...&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702961" align="right"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;~Mattie&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702962"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702964"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702966"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0.23_0.18_0.45_0.35_206_185_csupload_54533671.jpg?u=634964747512591398" width="206" height="185" id="post-703777:ctrl-634322" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0.23_0.18_0.45_0.35_206_185_csupload_54533671_large.jpg?u=634964747512591398" singleimage="true" style="float:left;height:185px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:206px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I have enjoyed my first two weeks here at &lt;a href="http://www.atwoodranchnaturally.com" target="_blank" class="userlink"&gt;Atwood Ranch Naturally&lt;/a&gt; as the Head Horse Development Specialist. The weather has been much warmer than at our new Starr House in Pagosa Springs, CO, and the 6,000 acres of the Red Bluff, CA, Atwood Ranch are beautiful - the rolling grasslands are surrounded by the mountains here in northern California.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702970"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702972"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;The young horses here - my projects are weanlings, yearlings, and two-year-olds along with a few older riding horses - are fantastic. The other famous Atwood Ranch HDS horseman have included Kalley Krickberg, Jake Shoemark, and Berin McFarland. The babies have had a wonderful foundation so far and I am honored to be continuing their eduction. If you are looking for a fantastic new partner, these horses have some of the best foundations I have ever handled, with all of them looking to be wonderful partners and have been used to handling for vets, farriers, and basic online and liberty skills.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702973"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702975"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Coming to the Atwood Ranch Naturally team, I have been reminded of just how important it is to use Level 4 Level 1 skills - these horses are great examples of what happens when you have the final goals (whether they be performance, companion, or recreational) in mind ever time you play with a horse. These horses are light, responsive, and are always looking for the answer.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702976"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702978"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Thinking about developing horses, I am now more than ever struck with the need to focus on developing a level 4 skill in even the most basic of things these young horses are being asked. Can they stay soft and relaxed when you pick up and trim their hooves? Can they be relaxed and accepting of basic veterinary tasks such as worming, vaccinations, and doctoring? How responsive and part of the job can every horse be when you halter, unhalter, and lead? Do they look forward to your visit every day? How about their response when the trailer arrives?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702979"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702981"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I love that my little bunch is so enthusiastic to be back in school. They often line up for their turn to be played with and come to meet me in the field if I come to pick up a few of them. I love their curiosity, responsiveness, and confidence. This is going to be a fun adventure!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702982"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-702984"&gt;&lt;div id="mediaPlayer_393f6036_e2b7_4f5c_b2e7_8d06c83475e0_container" style="clear:both;display:block;height:466px;margin:0px auto 10px auto;text-align:center;width:505px;"&gt;&lt;table class="media-player-container" style="text-align:left"&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/vp/JS-Lib/CustomerSites/Common/media_player.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td id="mediaPlayer_393f6036_e2b7_4f5c_b2e7_8d06c83475e0_cell"&gt;You need Flash Player in order to view this.&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript"&gt;vp.events.addOnDOMLoadHandler(function() {vp.website.createVideoPlayer('mediaPlayer_393f6036_e2b7_4f5c_b2e7_8d06c83475e0', 'https://www.youtube.com/v/h-pA4P3jvD8', 505, 466, false);});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td id="mediaPlayer_393f6036_e2b7_4f5c_b2e7_8d06c83475e0_title" class="media-player-song-title"&gt;Playday with Mattie Feb2013&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td id="mediaPlayer_393f6036_e2b7_4f5c_b2e7_8d06c83475e0_desc" class="media-player-song-description"&gt;Mattie Cowherd-Evans, Atwood Ranches&amp;#39; new Head of Horse Development gets to know the coming two-year-olds.  For additional information contact Atwood Ranch at 530-528-0504 or visit our website at Atwo...&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <link>http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/2013/02/14/The-Begining-of-an-Adventure-and-BACK-TO-BASICS.aspx</link>
      <creator xmlns="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">~Mattie</creator>
      <pubDate>02/14/2013 20:39:00</pubDate>
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      <title>"Is Causing Making?"</title>
      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830638"&gt;&lt;font face="arial black" size="4" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Lessons from Behind the Team:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830640"&gt;&lt;font face="arial black" size="4" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;
Article 5 &amp;quot;Is Causing Making?&amp;quot;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830642"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830644"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;Hello everyone! I&amp;#39;m hoping today to give
you a mental puzzle and something that I want you all to debate about with all
your friends. &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830645"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830647"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830649"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0.09_0.28_0_0_160_134_csupload_52445741.jpg?u=634906870445760872" width="160" height="134" id="post-632189:ctrl-2561733" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0.09_0.28_0_0_160_134_csupload_52445741_large.jpg?u=634906870445760872" singleimage="true" style="float:left;height:134px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:160px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;First I&amp;#39;d
like to use one of Pat&amp;#39;s sayings: &amp;quot;cause your idea to become you horse’s idea&amp;quot;. I told this to a
student the other day and she seemed confused, so I continued to try and
explain it further. And finally she said, “I understand what your saying but at the end of the day
isn&amp;#39;t your job to get the horse to do it?” This completely stumped me. She was right. All at once
hundreds of different counter arguments came to my head, each one being
contradicted by a different mental response. But the one that struck me as a
possible answer, the thing that Mattie said right away (how did I get such a
clever wife) is &amp;quot;it&amp;#39;s not about the...&amp;quot; in this case, water crossing.
&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830652"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830654"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;So why
didn&amp;#39;t I say that to my student?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830655"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830657"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I came
out with a few weak answers that only really left more questions. I didn&amp;#39;t say
it because even though it wasn&amp;#39;t about the water crossing, it was about trust
and respect (can&amp;#39;t have one without the other). It was still my job or task to
over come. Meaning that if I don&amp;#39;t succeed today, I&amp;#39;ll try tomorrow. Also, I&amp;#39;ll
have my horse try doing other things to gain trust or more respect then come
back. So is it really the horse’s choice or am I just manipulating his/her emotions and
behavioral patterns to encourage the horse to discover that what is happening
is not as scary as they first believed? Is it fair for me to expect that horse’s trust? It is fair of me to
use my partnership with my horse to use it to get various different results,
when really the horse’s desire is to be free? Is a wild horse any more free than
a domestic horse?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830658"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830660"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_246_163_csupload_52445770.jpg?u=634906870445760872" width="246" height="163" id="post-632189:ctrl-2561751" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_246_163_csupload_52445770_large.jpg?u=634906870445760872" singleimage="true" style="float:right;height:163px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:246px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I think
that last question is an easier one to answer. A wild horse is freer because if
he/she doesn’t
like his/her herd leader, the horse could always find a new herd or become the
leader himself or herself.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830663"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830665"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;Most often in domestic cases the horse
can&amp;#39;t change its herd of two, so it takes command (normally in subtle ways) in
order to cope with our inadequacies. So it&amp;#39;s our job as horsemen/women to
improve ourselves so that the horse doesn&amp;#39;t feel that it needs to take control.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830666"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830668"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;But this
still leaves a question: The perfect relationship is 51-49%, so that means when
I play with my horse, should 49% of the time be spent letting him do as he/she
wants? Right? Is this always possible? I know with my schedule I find it very
hard to get enough time to play with my horses. So is your relationship with
your horse really fair? Only your horse can answer that one.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830669"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830671"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_157_233_csupload_52445808.jpg?u=634906870445760872" width="157" height="233" id="post-632189:ctrl-2561769" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_157_233_csupload_52445808_large.jpg?u=634906870445760872" singleimage="true" style="float:left;height:233px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:157px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;What does
this have to do with driving? I always feel ambivalent about this when I&amp;#39;m
driving a team for 10/12 hours a day; is it really their choice? To work for me
all day long and get less feed than other horses simply because they can&amp;#39;t eat
more because of the schedule? And yet the driving horses seem so willing, so
reliable, which makes me wonder: are they happy or just too tired to argue?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830674"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830676"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Of course
a lot of these questions will never be answered fully, because for all the
wrong or right we do to our wonderful horses, they can&amp;#39;t ever completely tell
us. We are a lot more understanding of animals that have a voice: a dog will
yelp, a bird will sing, but horses only make noise to help call the herd
together –
rarely or never a noise of suffering.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830677"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830679"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;As humans
we value animals that have a voice. The proof is in the fact that we know so
little about fish... Is that simply because they don&amp;#39;t have a voice? I know
many vegetarians that still eat fish; is this because fish are worth less? I
don&amp;#39;t believe so, I believe it&amp;#39;s because they don&amp;#39;t have a voice.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830680"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830682"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;So is it
fair what we ask our horses to do for us? I&amp;#39;m still unsure but I know I will
continue to try to be worthy of my horse’s trust and respect. Because no matter how good or bad a
leader I am, I cannot give up. I know that in the future we will be good enough
we will understand horses, and to understand how to be great horsemen and women.
This is my dream; this is why I don&amp;#39;t quit, because I know that the next generation
will be better than me. Imagine six generations from now! What I&amp;#39;m doing today
will be common knowledge! One day Pat Parelli&amp;#39;s level of horsemanship will be
normal!!!!!! &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830683"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830685"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_241_160_csupload_52445820.jpg?u=634906870445760872" width="241" height="160" id="post-632189:ctrl-2561792" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_241_160_csupload_52445820_large.jpg?u=634906870445760872" singleimage="true" style="float:left;height:160px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:241px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Well I
hope this has given you a few things to think about and some insight into your
horsemanship. Please comment &amp;#160;--- your
ideas might help tip the scales on my own decision. &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830688"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-23830690"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Keep it
natural!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <link>http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/2012/12/09/Is-Causing-Making.aspx</link>
      <creator xmlns="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">~Jamie</creator>
      <pubDate>12/09/2012 20:57:00</pubDate>
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your horse can believe in you&amp;quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255689"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160; Ray Hunt*&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255690"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255691"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;I have a special place
in my mind for this saying, because there is also a Pat story attached to it.
I’ll give you guys the short version. I’d like you to rewind your clocks to
2009, summer season Colorado: simply breathtaking. The ranch crew was cutting
hay; some Externs and Interns were helping too (I was an Intern). I was driving
the team 3/4 of the day and the last 1/4 I was driving the tractor; cutting,
turning, and baling. We’d finished cutting on the ranch and Pat was now cutting
and baling a neighbor’s field which he had agreed we could use at low cost. The
neighbor’s field was 1/2 a mile away from the ranch home base and got us
somewhere in the range of 600 bales! So everyone helped pick up the hay one
night. We had 3 trucks and trailers and one team of beautiful drafts driven by
me. The horses were very tired and had about 4 tons of hay on the trailer that
would fit under the tarp.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255692"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255694"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_134_240_csupload_49956952.jpg?u=634842194511292986" width="134" height="240" id="post-557103:ctrl-11255431" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_134_240_csupload_49956952_large.jpg?u=634842194511292986" singleimage="true" style="float:right;height:240px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:134px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;“Hhhmmm ... well, just drive them home.” Pat said&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255697"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255699"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;“.... Urrhh, well, Pat, they’ve been struggling with this load on
the flat and well....”&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255700"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255702"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;“Want ME to do it?” I’m not sure if you can feel the tone in
Pat’s voice, but as he said it I realized this was a test and a lesson.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255703"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255705"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;“Okay, I’ll try.” I wasn’t too worried but on the way home there
was a very, very steep hill and I had a feeling we were not going to make it
up. Anyway, we headed back, the team sweating hard in the evening sun. I paused
at the bottom of the hill and looked at Rhett. He nodded and was holding on
tight as I set them off at a fast trot (as fast as they could go). They hit the
hill and the new added weight of the hill hit them. They fell to a walk and
started to slide on the soft ground. I drove them hard, pushing the saying that
we couldn’t back down now!! Lightning (little mare on the left) was really
struggling to get grip and Thunder (Big guy on the right) was doing better ...
But not a lot better. We were finally near the top and finally we shoved them
over. Now we were all sweating. Rhett lets me know we lost 10ish bales on the
bumps. I hadn’t noticed. I was little dizzy and my heart was still racing. We
then drove home slowly, letting the team set the pace. There was only one thing
I could think of: “believe in your horse(s) so your horse(s) can believe in
you.”&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255706"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255707"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255708"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255709"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255711"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;quot;Rapport, Respect,
Impulsion, Flexion&amp;quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255712"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Pat Parelli*&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255713"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255714"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;quot;Set it up and let him
find it&amp;quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255715"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ray Hunt*&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255716"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255717"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;quot;Cause your idea to
become your horses idea&amp;quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255718"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Pat Parelli*&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255719"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255720"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;quot;It&amp;#39;s a 51-49%
relationship. Use your 51% leadership to cause your horse to do what you want,
with his 49% time &amp;quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255722"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;(I’m afraid I don&amp;#39;t remember where I heard this, Parelli though)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255723"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255724"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;quot;Cause the right thing
to be easy, and the wrong to be difficult&amp;quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255725"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Pat
Parelli*&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255726"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255728"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255730"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255731"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_45141140.jpg?u=634842194511292986" width="250" height="188" id="post-557103:ctrl-11255517" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_45141140_large.jpg?u=634842194511292986" singleimage="true" style="float:left;height:188px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:250px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;All of these saying and concepts are simple on one level, but can
be taken to a much higher understanding and then become confusing. This is no
exception. On a basic level if you have an introvert that doesn&amp;#39;t move fast
enough with your 51% time, ask him to move really slowly; when you let him go
he will want to move forward. With an extrovert use your 51% to move his feet a
lot then when the farrier gets there say stand still; he will be very happy to
just because he doesn&amp;#39;t have to run around anymore. And really there&amp;#39;s no need
to take it further ... Until you are in that situation where it&amp;#39;s needed.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255734"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255736"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Catwalk, a horse used for a demo in the UK, was a great example
of an extreme &amp;quot;Fix it up and let him find it&amp;quot;. For those of you that
don&amp;#39;t know, Catwalk was an extreme bridling case ... Even for Pat!! His
challenge was that he would attack you if you had a bridle. So Pat tried up one
of his legs using the theory that you can have your leg back if you CONSIDER
the bridle. Catwalk galloped on three legs as if to say &amp;quot;I&amp;#39;d rather live
on three legs&amp;quot;. In the end Pat used a blindfold saying I&amp;#39;ll give you back
your sight if you consider the bridle, not take the bridle CONSIDER it. Of
course after 2 days Pat had the bridle on without trouble but that&amp;#39;s what it
took to set that horse up to find the answer.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255737"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255739"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;This kind of falls back on a saying I’ve already talked a little
on: &amp;quot;Be effective to be understood, and understood in order to be
effective&amp;quot; How effective do you have to be with an extreme horse to get
them to CONSIDER changing! We’re not FORCING the change - don’t forget that! We
wait until there’s a try, a thought, a concept in the horse’s mind that might
help him think of being our partner. And we won’t quit on them ever! That’s
what makes us horse lovers; we push them to change; we help them understand the
human world but to be honest, if they never changed, if they never Improved,
and were always wild, we would still love them and feed them and look after
them until their dying days.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255740"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255742"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;This kind of dedication often changes even the toughest of
horses... So for those of you out there with tough horses, stick with it. Keep
pushing through, and your horse will love you for it! This brings me to one of my
mum’s sayings that I love:&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255743"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255746"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255748"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255750"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;“You can’t change anyone!
Only they can change.”&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255751"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;Sue Evans &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255752"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255754"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255756"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Meaning you can’t change them, but you can help.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255757"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255759"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;And last but not least!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255760"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_45141113.jpg?u=634842194511292986" width="250" height="188" id="post-557103:ctrl-11255565" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_45141113_large.jpg?u=634842194511292986" singleimage="true" style="float:right;height:188px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:250px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255764"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255765"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255767"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;quot;Watch your thoughts, they
become your words, watch your words, they become your actions, watch your
actions, because they become your character. You and I are one of life&amp;#39;s
characters, so watch your thoughts&amp;quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255768"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Pat Parelli*&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255769"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255771"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255773"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I think this one needs no explanation --- just watch your
thoughts!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255774"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255776"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Thanks again for taking the time to read my ideas on the world
and for your future comments. Please let me know if there&amp;#39;s anything you&amp;#39;d like
me to write about. I look forward to seeing you all down the trail!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255777"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255779"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="post-557103:ctrl-11255781"&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;display:block;height:180px;margin:0px auto 10px auto;text-align:center;width:200px;"&gt;&lt;form action="http://sitebuilder.vpweb.com/em/signup_proxy.aspx?account=bde5dd3f-96cf-44ae-8ead-28c935ff24d9" method="POST"&gt;&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" style="width:200px; height:180px; background-image:url('http://www.vpweb.com/vp/images/nns/common/email-sign-up-tool/forms_generated/3_US.gif');"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:30px 10px 0px 10px; text-align:left; font-size:12px; font-family:Arial; color:#ffffff;"&gt;First Name&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:0px 20px 5px 10px;"&gt;&lt;input type="text" name="FirstName" style="border:1px solid #A5ACB2; height:23px; width:100%; background-color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:0px 10px 0px 10px; text-align:left; font-size:12px; font-family:Arial; color:#ffffff;"&gt;Email&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:0px 20px 10px 10px;"&gt;&lt;input type="text" name="em_signup_customer" style="border:1px solid #A5ACB2; height:23px; width:100%; background-color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:0px 15px 10px 10px; text-align:center;"&gt;&lt;input type="image" name="Submit" value="Submit" id="formSubmit" src="http://www.vpweb.com/vp/images/nns/common/email-sign-up-tool/forms_generated/3_button_US.gif" alt="Send"&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div style="width:200px;color:#00539f;font-family:Arial;font-size:11px;"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration:none;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.vistaprint.com/email-marketing.aspx"&gt;Email Marketing&lt;/a&gt; Powered by Vistaprint.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/form&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <creator xmlns="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">~Jamie</creator>
      <pubDate>09/25/2012 23:24:00</pubDate>
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      <title>Lessons from Behind the Team Article 6: Things to Keep in Mind - Part 1</title>
      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259620"&gt;&lt;span style="float:left;height:35px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:200px;"&gt;&lt;iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%253a%252f%252fwww.parellihorseplay.com%252fblog%252f2012%252f09%252f25%252fLessons-from-Behind-the-Team-Article-6-Things-to-Keep-in-Mind-Part-1.aspx&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=false&amp;width=200&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light&amp;height=35&amp;locale=en_US&amp;ts=09%2f26%2f2012+01%3a27%3a33" width="200" height="35" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:200px; height:35;"&gt;Please upgrade to a browser that supports frames.&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="float:left;height:36px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:100px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/@HorsePlaySavvy" target="_blank" onclick="vp.website.trackTwitterFollowClick();"&gt;&lt;img src="http://twitter-badges.s3.amazonaws.com/follow_bird-c.png"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="float:left;height:20px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:132px;"&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;a name="tweet" href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http%3a%2f%2fwww.parellihorseplay.com%2fblog%2f2012%2f09%2f25%2fLessons-from-Behind-the-Team-Article-6-Things-to-Keep-in-Mind-Part-1.aspx%2f&amp;via=HorsePlaySavvy&amp;lang=en&amp;count=horizontal&amp;ts=09%2f26%2f2012+01%3a27%3a33&amp;text=Check out this Savvy Article! #Vistaprintwebsites" class="twitter-share-button"&gt;Tweet&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;font size="5" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259626"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259628"&gt;&lt;font size="5" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259631"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259633"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259635"&gt;&lt;font size="5" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;u&gt;Lessons from Behind the Team Article 6:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259638"&gt;&lt;font size="5" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;u&gt; Things to Keep in Mind - Part 1&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-right:0;"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259649"&gt;&lt;font size="5" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;i&gt;~Jamie&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259652"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259654"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_127_197_csupload_39380285.jpg?u=634842196513868503" width="127" height="197" id="post-557031:ctrl-20732630" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_127_197_csupload_39380285_large.jpg?u=634842196513868503" singleimage="true" style="float:left;height:197px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:127px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Hello everyone!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259657"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259659"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;These are some of my favorite quotes. These things often fly into
my head right at the correct moment to save the day! And often I&amp;#39;ll be
struggling to find an answer and unconsciously one of these quotes will appear
and 9 times out of 10 it&amp;#39;s right for that situation and that horse. (The *
after people’s names is just saying that it&amp;#39;s not just that person who said it
--- most of their mentors and students will have said it to.) To talk more
about these quotes, I have added some of my thoughts after each group.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259660"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259662"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259665"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;quot;It&amp;#39;s not about what you do it&amp;#39;s about when you stop doing
what your doing.&amp;quot; Pat
Parelli*&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259666"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259667"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;quot;Be effective to be understood, and understood in order to
be effective&amp;quot;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259668"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;Pat Parelli*&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259669"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259670"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;quot;Pressure motivates but it&amp;#39;s the Release that teaches&amp;quot;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259671"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;Pat Parelli*&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259672"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259673"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;quot;&lt;b&gt;NEVER &lt;/b&gt;knock the try out of a
horse&amp;quot;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259674"&gt;&lt;font color="#89191C"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;Tom Dorrance&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259675"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259676"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259678"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;b&gt;First: the release
that teaches&lt;/b&gt; In other words, be careful what you teach your horse! So first
of all... What counts as an appropriate amount of release? Does it really
matter what pressure you put on a horse? How effective is effective? And when
does it become knocking the try out of a horse? Whenever I play with a horse
that I am &amp;quot;teaching&amp;quot; something (e.g. hunt the jump, driving prep,
etc.) this is running through my head.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259679"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259681"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_148_98_csupload_36750842.jpg?u=634842196513868503" width="148" height="98" id="post-557031:ctrl-20732702" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_148_98_csupload_36750842_large.jpg?u=634842196513868503" singleimage="true" style="float:left;height:98px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:148px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I was watching Pat at the most recent Savvy Celebration in the UK
putting a lot of pressure on the LBE horse that James Roberts was riding. I was
sitting there thinking, “this is crazy - Pat is teaching James something
important but can the horse take the pressure?” And after a few minutes, the
horse was considerably better with pressure as if by magic!?! James&amp;#39;s riding
had really improved: his hands were more still and his legs more active, and
the pressure wasn&amp;#39;t blowing the horse up. Now I know that I couldn&amp;#39;t ride that
horse or teach anything even close to what Pat did, but thinking back I have
started to realize how many releases Pat gave that horse... (Extrovert releases
--- for those if you reading this that were at the UK Savvy Celebration. Think
back and see if you understand what I&amp;#39;m beginning to understand. It is also on
the Horsenality DVD.)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259684"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259686"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259688"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259691"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&amp;quot;Never ask a trying horse to try&amp;quot;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259692"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;Pat
Parelli*&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259693"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259695"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&amp;quot;You&amp;#39;ve got a 50-50 chance&amp;quot;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259696"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;Linda Parelli*&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259697"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259699"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;&amp;quot;Take the time it takes and it will take less time&amp;quot;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259700"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#89191C"&gt;Pat Parelli*&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259701"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259702"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259704"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;b&gt;This time I&amp;#39;m thinking of
trust vs. respect&lt;/b&gt;. You can&amp;#39;t have one without the other. Trust without
Respect is a horse that loves you but the horse leads and you follow. And
Respect without trust is fear. I think we all know how to get more respect
using fair phases and driving game with porcupine game in the right
combinations. Trust can be a lot harder.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259705"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-11259707"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_174_232_csupload_40248848.jpg?u=634842196513868503" width="174" height="232" id="post-557031:ctrl-20732745" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_174_232_csupload_40248848_large.jpg?u=634842196513868503" singleimage="true" style="float:right;height:232px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:174px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;The Horses I&amp;#39;m thinking of now are Horses that have a bad past
and therefore anytime I played with them I have to be forgiven for other people’s
sins. These horses often have trouble being around humans. And because they have
had a bad history, you want to protect them, but this is the worst thing you
could do. These horses need you to help them get through the basic lack of
trust issue first. These horses sometimes need you to be really firm with them
sometimes, while also being EXTREMELY patient with your horse while he or she
learns how to be a completely new horse. Often the behaviors that these horses
show are deeply ingrained and have saved your horse its entire life (in its
mind). Now you are asking it to change and in his/her mind it seems almost
impossible to change without death. This is why you can’t be completely placid
in your approach. If you don’t really demand it, why change? And yet as all
these sayings say in one way or another, there is always a delicate balance.
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stage I’m in in my journey (working in level 3/4, getting ready for a fast track, in
hopes of qualifying for the instructor program). It’s the missing bridge
between home study and delving into actual ‘training’ Parelli style. &amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808500"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808501"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Mattie and Jamie are the best - two totally different
personalities that give you the opportunity to learn from and understand
different ways to approach your journey and horse development. The program is
pretty kicked back- you don’t really know what you are going to work on from
day to day… so if having every second of your day planned is your modus
operandi, it may be a bit unsettling&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808502"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808504"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I was a bit skeptical and stressy in the beginning, but I’ve
learned so much and both of them know my goals and know what they are doing, so
I trust them to help me fill the holes in my foundation in preparation for my
future. I may not get everything perfect at their place, but that’s not as
importation as knowing where I’m headed afterwards. &lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808506"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808508"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;They throw a lot of information at you, and they don’t tell
you what to do every moment of the day. But in the stage I’m at it doesn’t
bother me that much, as I’ve been working a long time on my own, and have a
pretty good idea of what I’m looking for. They are most always around and
always ready to answer questions or help you out with problems. They are very
giving of their time and knowledge and I’m so grateful to be able to
participate in this program.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808509"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808510"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808512"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0.07_0_0.2_0_307_166_csupload_45140322.jpg?u=634716048772966026" width="307" height="166" id="post-445352:ctrl-863488" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0.07_0_0.2_0_307_166_csupload_45140322_large.jpg?u=634716048772966026" singleimage="true" style="clear:both;display:block;height:166px;margin:0px auto 10px auto;text-align:center;width:307px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808516"&gt;&lt;font color="#583124"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;Week 2&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808518"&gt;&lt;font color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808521"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Welcome to horsie bootcamp, and I’m lovin’ it! I’m tired and
sore, but who cares… &lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808523"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808525"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Being in this environment has helped me see how I’ve limited
my horses. How much more particular I need to be, and how much they are
actually capable of - mentally and physically. When you home study you really
don’t have anyone to push you into taking your horsemanship to the next level,
and many times that’s why things so south - you horse is sick and tired of
playing in kindergarten. I had a down day this week in that I felt lost in what
I was trying to accomplish with my horse, and was tired of working so hard to
get so little. Kinda took the day easy and today I watched both Mattie and
Jamie work with some horses that really helped me understand what and where I
needed to go. I’m excited to see what I can do with this new knowledge.&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808526"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808528"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0.05_0.14_0.13_0.21_152_257_csupload_45140368.jpg?u=634716048772966026" width="152" height="257" id="post-445352:ctrl-863516" alt="" title="" rel="sw_lightbox" description="" href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0.05_0.14_0.13_0.21_152_257_csupload_45140368_large.jpg?u=634716048772966026" singleimage="true" style="float:left;height:257px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:152px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Last week Mattie and Jamie also helped me deal with an issue
I’ve been dealing with for over a year with my horse - not trailering because he
wasn’t accepting being locked in the trailer. I had done all I knew to do with
approach and retreat, in, out, and around the trailer, extreme friendly - you
name it. But my horse would still blow up when locked inside. Mattie and Jamie
took time out to help me several times with him, showing me the missing piece -
namely allowing the &lt;u&gt;horse&lt;/u&gt; to learn to think his way through the
situation on his own. This week I can see that’s exactly what was missing and
it’s transferring to other areas of his development as well. Exciting!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808532"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808534"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808536" align="center"&gt;&lt;font color="#583124"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808538" align="center"&gt;&lt;font color="#0071BC"&gt;&lt;b&gt;KEEP IN CONTACT WITH US! SIGN UP BELOW:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808540"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808542"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-808544"&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;display:block;height:180px;margin:0px auto 10px auto;text-align:center;width:200px;"&gt;&lt;form action="http://sitebuilder.vpweb.com/em/signup_proxy.aspx?account=bde5dd3f-96cf-44ae-8ead-28c935ff24d9" method="POST"&gt;&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" style="width:200px; height:180px; background-image:url('http://www.vpweb.com/vp/images/nns/common/email-sign-up-tool/forms_generated/1_US.gif');"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:30px 10px 0px 10px; text-align:left; font-size:12px; font-family:Arial; color:#000000;"&gt;First Name&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:0px 20px 5px 10px;"&gt;&lt;input type="text" name="FirstName" style="border:1px solid #A5ACB2; height:23px; width:100%; background-color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:0px 10px 0px 10px; text-align:left; font-size:12px; font-family:Arial; color:#000000;"&gt;Email&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:0px 20px 10px 10px;"&gt;&lt;input type="text" name="em_signup_customer" style="border:1px solid #A5ACB2; height:23px; width:100%; background-color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="padding:0px 15px 10px 10px; text-align:center;"&gt;&lt;input type="image" name="Submit" value="Submit" id="formSubmit" src="http://www.vpweb.com/vp/images/nns/common/email-sign-up-tool/forms_generated/1_button_US.gif" alt="Send"&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div style="width:200px;color:#00539f;font-family:Arial;font-size:11px;"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration:none;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.vistaprint.com/email-marketing.aspx"&gt;Email Marketing&lt;/a&gt; Powered by Vistaprint.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/form&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <creator xmlns="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">~Rebecca</creator>
      <pubDate>05/02/2012 23:21:00</pubDate>
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heard Pat say it thousands of times before. He has said that the first 
horse you have is your sacrificial learning lamb --- and the next 300 
are also your sacrificial lambs.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007339"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007341"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Yes, that is true, but I also have found that each of my long term 
partners, Kami - Sterling - older horses such as Reddy and Dancer, where
 there as some of my best teachers - and they came to me when I needed 
to learn new or different lessons. For example, Kami has been one of my 
best teachers for everything from understanding introverts, to making it
 to Level 4, to making sure I sat on her properly. And I tell you, when 
your teacher bucks when you are out of position, you start to listen!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007342"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007344"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0.25_0.27_0.4_0.36_258_159_csupload_42352828.jpg?u=634653699046299700" width="258" height="159" id="post-387510:ctrl-33740524" alt="" title="" style="float:right;height:159px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:258px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;Now, being partner to Kami, I wasn&amp;#39;t looking for another horse, and 
yet, when I met Sterling, I felt a connection far beyond that of any 
horse before. I am glad I had the teachers before him, but it has been 
him, of all my horses that has been the one to take everything I&amp;#39;ve 
learned before and challenge it. If I think I have to be soft, he&amp;#39;ll 
need me to be firm. When I expect to be firm and big, he&amp;#39;ll be so subtle
 and want only the very lightest of cues. One day he can be a wild 
hooligan and the next I&amp;#39;ll take him to a demo and he&amp;#39;ll be LAZY!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007347"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007349"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;For those of you who have not taken the Horsenality and Humanality 
Reports from Parelli - I highly encourage you to do so. No, I am not 
trying to sell this to you; I was the same way. However, when I found 
myself being a little stumped about how to approach Sterling&amp;#39;s most 
recent shift of unconfidence (from his usual LBE self to a very scared, 
rearing and tense horse, RBE for game of contact) I finally broke down 
and filled out the forms.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007350"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007352"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_225_276_csupload_40248360.jpg?u=634653699046299700" width="225" height="276" id="post-387510:ctrl-33740541" alt="" title="" style="float:left;height:276px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:225px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;And I was very glad I did. The reports brought back perspective for 
our relationship and where Sterling is in this most vulnerable savvy - 
his finesse has always been challenging and even Linda Parelli has 
reminded me that the challenging horses with a history need time. As I reviewed the report on Sterling and on our Match report, I realized that Sterling was more on the RBE side of the line (he is a LBE/RBE cusp score with a high spirit level) whenever he was in finesse, especially when pressure came into zone 1 --- he was afraid that he couldn&amp;#39;t go forward and the results were pretty spectacular at times. I am a LBI axis point personality, so though I can make the jump easily to other quadrants, I tend to be a little slower and patient, and rarely go RBE.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007355"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007357"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I just needed to be more sympathetic to what Sterling was feeling and actually GET FIRMER IN ZONE 1!!! I would never have expected that, but the more leadership I gave Sterling when he got upset, the calmer he became!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007358"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007360"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I am so glad that I made the jump to reviewing and gaining more knowledge for myself. I am also glad for my teacher, Sterling. It has been a joke of Jamie&amp;#39;s when I say that this horse is like Sterling because.... He says that every horse is like Sterling because Sterling is able to be so many things and all at once!!!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007361"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007363"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_262_174_csupload_39414767.jpg?u=634653699046299700" width="262" height="174" id="post-387510:ctrl-33740559" alt="" title="" style="float:right;height:174px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:262px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;I hope that you too, find your partner that will teach you and show you the newest things you are to learn. Live it Natural, ~Mattie&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007366"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864B29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007368"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007370"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;font color="#583124"&gt;Cherokee Saying:&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007372" align="center"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;quot;LISTEN! Or your tongue will make you deaf.&amp;quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007373" align="center"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-5007375" align="center"&gt;&lt;div id="mediaPlayer_f7a0edc2_5419_4857_a561_3977b9a078a1_container" style="float:left;height:53px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:517px;"&gt;&lt;table class="media-player-container" style="text-align:left"&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/vp/JS-Lib/CustomerSites/Common/media_player.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td id="mediaPlayer_f7a0edc2_5419_4857_a561_3977b9a078a1_title" class="media-player-song-title"&gt;&amp;quot;Falling Slowly&amp;quot;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td id="mediaPlayer_f7a0edc2_5419_4857_a561_3977b9a078a1_desc" class="media-player-song-description"&gt;from &amp;quot;ONCE&amp;quot;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td id="mediaPlayer_f7a0edc2_5419_4857_a561_3977b9a078a1_cell"&gt;You need Flash Player in order to view this.&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript"&gt;var mediaPlayer_f7a0edc2_5419_4857_a561_3977b9a078a1_playlist = [];mediaPlayer_f7a0edc2_5419_4857_a561_3977b9a078a1_playlist.add({ title: '\u0022Falling Slowly\u0022', description: 'from \u0022ONCE\u0022' });vp.events.addOnDOMLoadHandler(function() {vp.website.createMediaPlayerWithPlaylist('mediaPlayer_f7a0edc2_5419_4857_a561_3977b9a078a1', '/blog/assets/mediaPlayer_f7a0edc2_5419_4857_a561_3977b9a078a1_playlist.smil', 517, true, false);});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <creator xmlns="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">~Mattie</creator>
      <pubDate>02/20/2012 20:25:00</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13781594"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_39269901.jpg?u=634577451502737500" width="250" height="188" id="post-316132:ctrl-13640694" alt="" title="" style="float:left;height:188px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:250px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;Yesterday we had an incredible day of lessons with Mattie.&lt;br&gt;In the morning we packed our lunches and headed up to&lt;br&gt;a near by Arabian farm, called Mountain Magic Arabians,&lt;br&gt;owned by Helga Etscheidt. The farm is located on top&lt;br&gt;of a mountain, off the grid in the middle of nowhere. We&lt;br&gt;actually got a little lost trying to find the place, but the&lt;br&gt;views we saw along the way were breathtaking. There&lt;br&gt;were aspen meadows, turning golden and fiery red. There&lt;br&gt;were herds of deer and a beautiful double rainbow coming&lt;br&gt;up from behind the mountains.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13781606"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_39270161.jpg?u=634577451502737500" width="250" height="188" id="post-316132:ctrl-13640708" alt="" title="" style="float:right;height:188px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:250px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;When we finally got there, Helga had the first “project&lt;br&gt;horse” waiting in the roundpen. WS Majeszty is a 10 year-&lt;br&gt;old Arabian stallion, a multi-champion in halter and never&lt;br&gt;been started under saddle. Mattie almost immediately&lt;br&gt;pegged him as a RBI and then proceeded to play with him&lt;br&gt;online. Within 30 minutes the horse has accepted her to&lt;br&gt;sit on his back and move his feet. They she had me come&lt;br&gt;in to the roundpen and had Majeszty follow me around as&lt;br&gt;she guided him and cued him to move his feet. It was so&lt;br&gt;beautiful watching a master at work. Everyone was&lt;br&gt;impressed and learned a lot, including the horse!&lt;br&gt;The next horse in line was HK Tohfa, a 12 year-old&lt;br&gt;Arabian mare. As we approached her pen, you could hear&lt;br&gt;Tohfa snorting and and looking very skeptical. Mattie went&lt;br&gt;inside and Tohfa came up with what looked like&lt;br&gt;confidence to say hello. As soon as Mattie touched her,&lt;br&gt;however, the mare snorted and ran away, hiding herself&lt;br&gt;behind her corral-mate. Mattie spent the next 30&lt;br&gt;minutes “taming and gentling” this mare. Helga explained&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13781628"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_39270231.jpg?u=634577451502737500" width="250" height="188" id="post-316132:ctrl-13640732" alt="" title="" style="float:left;height:188px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:250px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;to us that the only exposure she’s had to other people has&lt;br&gt;been vets and farriers and she’s very skeptical and fearful&lt;br&gt;of anyone but Helga. It was incredible watching Mattie&lt;br&gt;take this horse, who looked like she was scared for her life&lt;br&gt;and for the first time proving to her that she is okay&lt;br&gt;and “other people” are not going to harm her. Every time&lt;br&gt;Mattie tried to touch her or even come close, she would&lt;br&gt;snort and run away. By the end of the session the mare&lt;br&gt;has accepted all of us climbing over the fence and petting&lt;br&gt;and rubbing all over her. Then Mattie sent her over to all&lt;br&gt;of us as we sat on the fence, above her head and rubbed&lt;br&gt;on her face and body. It was nice seeing the change in&lt;br&gt;her mind, expressed in her soft eye and relaxed body.&lt;br&gt;She seemed to have been living in the prison of her mind&lt;br&gt;and for the first time she experienced the freedom from&lt;br&gt;the fears the held on to all these years!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13781646"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_39270276.jpg?u=634577451502737500" width="250" height="188" id="post-316132:ctrl-13640752" alt="" title="" style="float:right;height:188px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:250px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;The third and fourth horses we, the students got to&lt;br&gt;play with. They were young, four and five year-old&lt;br&gt;stallions, who haven’t had much exposure to other people&lt;br&gt;and were VERY full of themselves. Mattie talked us&lt;br&gt;through playing with each one at liberty and what&lt;br&gt;techniques to use for their Horsenalities. The first one was&lt;br&gt;an extreme LBE and the other an extreme RBE, both on&lt;br&gt;adrenaline and lots of testosterone. I got to play with them&lt;br&gt;first and it was almost beyond my skill and confidence&lt;br&gt;level. It was the first time I was exposed to a fire-breathing&lt;br&gt;stallion at liberty, but under Mattie’s watchful eye, I was&lt;br&gt;able to get over my fear, manage my energy and&lt;br&gt;eventually manage the horses’ energy and get them to&lt;br&gt;think and to “face up” and follow me around. Wow! What a&lt;br&gt;lesson! Then Manuel got to play with one of them and&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13781664"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;teach him some driving and circling games. Then we got&lt;br&gt;to watch Mattie teach the LBE the sideways game and&lt;br&gt;use his fabulous exuberance and energy for some fancy&lt;br&gt;maneuvers. Thank you Mattie for allowing us an entire&lt;br&gt;day of watching you play with horses and for gaining&lt;br&gt;understanding of what goes on inside your head as you&lt;br&gt;approach each horse. Thank you, Jamie, for staying home&lt;br&gt;and taking care of our horse chores.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13781672"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13781673"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;Matylda Smith&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <pubDate>11/24/2011 14:25:00</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-15278323"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;My ISP time, is over. The last two weeks have been pretty intense, we worked on so many different areas of horsemanship.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-15278324"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;One day we went to another facility to learn about first contact with a horse and evaluation, reading diferent horses and play with no parelli horses....it was just amazing. Mattie was leading us through it....we could see what &amp;quot;savvy&amp;quot; means and change mi mind about reading/horsenalities from somethig I need to improve my horsemanship to my favorite topic. We saw a lot of things....first ride of a 10 year old stallion, a not truly tamed 12 year old mare....&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-15278326"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;We also had liberty, group liberty, back up and riding lessons, I enjoyed each lesson but everytime I was thinking, How&amp;#160;&amp;#160; could I be around horses without Knowing this? ...and look at that!!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-15278328"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;We say here something like the world&amp;#180;s colour depends on the colour of the glasses of who is looking and now I&amp;#180;m back in Spain and the funny thing is my perception of my horse is completly diferent, we were looking at each other and thinking what &amp;quot;in the world&amp;quot; are you doing?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-15278330"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;Now the expectations are much higher;&amp;#160; I can feel a big diference in me and my horse has improved more in the first twenty minutes than in one month before going into the ISP so, &lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-15278333"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#583124"&gt;THANK YOU!!!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <pubDate>11/24/2011 13:45:00</pubDate>
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Our group has a higher understanding of horsemanship than I expected we would attract when we started this program. Because of this, we have had a lot of fun taking their higher understanding of principles into purpose and in doing so, I believe they have gained an even higher understanding of the Parelli Principles and their importance in Horsemanship.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766595"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766597"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;This group has been riding from their house (1 mile away), using horses as transportation, dragging logs, etc. I have noticed lots of little improvements over these last few weeks in all of them. These changes have ranged from: understanding relationship better and being softer to being more creative and more goal driven.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766598"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766600"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_36950875.png?u=634523854740237500" width="250" height="188" id="post-262723:ctrl-22340210" alt="" title="" pngsrc="/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_36950875.png?u=634523854740237500" style="float:right;height:188px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:250px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;It is great to see all four (Manuel, Maria, Matylda, and Doray) of them progress into a level closer to mine. I love this program we have created because normally as an instructor we do clinics and only see people maybe once or twice a year. To have students for this length of time, really allows me to watch them progress and I hope that all four decide to become instructors (or follow their Parelli dreams) because all four have an enormous amount of potential to make the world a better place for horses and humans.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766603"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766605"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;Keep it Natural,&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766606"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;Jamie&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766607"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766609"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766611"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766613"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766615" align="center"&gt;&lt;font size="4" color="#9e270e"&gt;WANT TO HEAR FROM EACH STUDENT ABOUT THEIR FIRST WEEKS IN THIS INTENSIVE STUDY?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766616" align="center"&gt;&lt;font size="4" color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766618" align="center"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#9e270e"&gt;Check out the Blog Category &amp;quot;INTENSIVE STUDY&amp;quot; or click on the links below to read about their journeys:&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766619"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/2011/09/23/INTENSIVE-STUDY-September-2011-Blog-Post-1.aspx?alt_id=KN2WB-7A160-2I0&amp;ts=1316800056350" target="_blank" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766622"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/2011/09/23/INTENSIVE-STUDY-September-2011-Blog-Post-1.aspx?alt_id=KN2WB-7A160-2I0&amp;ts=1316800056350" target="_blank" class="userlink"&gt;MANUEL'S BLOG - No Longer Stuck!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766624"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766626"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/2011/09/23/INTENSIVE-STUDY-September-2011-Blog-Post-2.aspx?alt_id=KN2WB-7A160-2I0&amp;ts=1316800764129" target="_blank" class="userlink"&gt;DORAY'S BLOG - ISP #2 - Not for Wimps&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766628"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/2011/09/23/INTENSIVE-STUDY-September-2011-Blog-Post-3.aspx?alt_id=KN2WB-7A160-2I0&amp;ts=1316801278926" target="_blank" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766631"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/2011/09/23/INTENSIVE-STUDY-September-2011-Blog-Post-3.aspx?alt_id=KN2WB-7A160-2I0&amp;ts=1316801278926" target="_blank" class="userlink"&gt;MARIA'S BLOG - The Possible Impossible&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766633"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766635"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/2011/09/23/INTENSIVE-STUDY-September-2011-Blog-Post-4.aspx?alt_id=KN2WB-7A160-2I0&amp;ts=1316801898626" target="_blank" class="userlink"&gt;MATYLDA'S BLOG - Where Did Week 1 Go???&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766637"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766639"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766641"&gt;&lt;font color="#9e270e"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/2011/09/23/INTENSIVE-STUDY-September-2011-Blog-Post-4.aspx?alt_id=KN2WB-7A160-2I0&amp;ts=1316801898626" target="_blank" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-13766644"&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;display:block;height:180px;margin:0px auto 10px auto;text-align:center;width:200px;"&gt;&lt;form action="http://sitebuilder.vpweb.com/em/signup_proxy.aspx?account=bde5dd3f-96cf-44ae-8ead-28c935ff24d9" method="POST"&gt;&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" style="width:200px; 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      <pubDate>09/23/2011 12:34:00</pubDate>
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asked each of them to give us comments, and we are not editing the 
comments in any way so that you can get the full feel of the Intensive 
Study experience through them. This blog is by Manuel. Enjoy! ~Mattie&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030556"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030558"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030560"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030562"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_223_297_csupload_36950236.png?u=634523843532373750" width="223" height="297" id="post-262707:ctrl-13838487" alt="" title="" pngsrc="/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_223_297_csupload_36950236.png?u=634523843532373750" style="float:left;height:297px;margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;width:223px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font color="#583124"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;ISP BLOG - Week 1&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030565"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030567"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030569"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;I have been at the ISP one
week today and the the education I’ve received in five days (two days off)
thoroughly surpasses the numerous classes and courses I’ve attended in the
past. Mattie and Jamie are the most talented, young instructors I’ve ever met.
Their knowledge and experience combined add up to what you may expect to see in
three or four of instructors, twice their age! They are also really good
people, who make it obvious that they care about you as a person and have made
it their personal goal to see you succeed and reach your goals and expectations
for the program.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030570"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030572"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;The
day starts with horse chores, like feeding and cleaning. We brush all the
horses and get ready for the morning lessons. Those have so far included;
roping and dragging logs for several hundred feet, though gates and past
cattle, leaning how to harness and ground drive a set of draft horses to&amp;#160; the house and back in the mornings and
evenings, watching Jamie play with special project horses, playing a liberty
game called Territories, which stepped my liberty up to the next level,
learning how to get on bareback using four different methods, bareback and
bridleless riding- emphasizing on indirect to direct rein on a follow the rail
pattern, natural hoof care and natural dentistry demos, which made such a
difference in my horse’s balance and movement. &lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030574"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030576"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_36950297.png?u=634523843532373750" width="250" height="188" id="post-262707:ctrl-13838510" alt="" title="" pngsrc="/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_36950297.png?u=634523843532373750" style="float:right;height:188px;margin:0 0 7px 7px;width:250px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;I
also learned a valuable lesson in sticking to something long enough to teach
the horse and myself and make a positive change. Mattie challenged me to play
the circling game in the pasture with my horse, Tristan everyday for one week
until he gave me rhythm, relaxation and contact. This took two hours the first
day, 1.5 hours the second, 45 minutes the third, 20 minutes the fourth and
almost immediately the fifth, sixth and seventh. Tristan got to experience all
four of the Horses’s Responsibilities as I got to experience all of mine. The
pasture is the perfect Parelli playground. It has hills and flat areas, lush
grass, dry and soggy terrain, ponds and creeks, cattle on one side, deer on
another and jumps and logs as well as trees and fences. For the first time my
horse and I din’t get bored at the circling game, and this is by far the most
we’ve ever circled at one time. During this time, Tristan, who has never
learned how to use his body with power and balance, learned that trotting and
cantering up and down a hill for an hour is much easier when he puts his head
down, rounds his back and powers up his hindquarters. I learned that my horse
is designed to go for a long time and he actually enjoys it. I had to admit to
Mattie that she was right, because, I was skeptical and had a hard time when I
first received the challenge.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030579"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;After
the morning horsemanship time, we do our mid-day chores, which include cleaning
manure and feeding lunch. Then we have a “siesta” and meet back up in the
afternoon. Afternoons have been broken up into sometimes demos, sometimes
personal time with our horses and sometimes “special projects” such as moving
and stacking 300 bales of hay, trimming horses, organizing the tack room,
fixing fences etc. Although these projects are physically demanding at times,
they are done as a team, with great attitude and a fun environment. They also
all relate to ranch work and are a good leaning experience on how to get things
done the right way, with excellence and putting principles to purpose. &lt;/font&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030581"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030583"&gt;&lt;a href="#" rel="sw_lightbox" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.parellihorseplay.com/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_36950376.png?u=634523843532373750" width="250" height="188" id="post-262707:ctrl-13838522" alt="" title="" pngsrc="/blog/assets/0_0_0_0_250_188_csupload_36950376.png?u=634523843532373750" style="clear:both;display:block;height:188px;margin:0px auto 10px auto;text-align:center;width:250px;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;We
do our evening chores between 5 and 6 pm and then we have time to play with our
horses, take them out to graze or drag out butts home to digest all that we’ve
learned that day and put our feet up after a long but good day. I’m staying in
a house, a mile down the road with two other ISP students. They came from Spain
and are teaching me Spanish and I help them with their English. In the evening
we frequently discuss the day’s lessons and fall asleep on the couches watching
something “Parelli” on DVD. My only complaint is that the days are going by so
fast and I only have three weeks left before going home! &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030586"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030588"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;Matylda
Smith&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-50030589"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#864b29"&gt;Santa
Fe, NM&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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